So, you’re getting married! (Cue the confetti, champagne, and ALL the happy dances!) Whether you’re weeks away or counting down from months, it’s time to make sure your big day goes off without a hitch. I’m not just talking about the timeline or the flowers arriving on time, but about YOU feeling like the absolute queen (or king!) you are.

Here in San Antonio, we like to keep it real, fun, and totally stress-free. So, I’m giving you some uncommon, real-talk tips that will make sure you’re cool as a margarita on your wedding day—and maybe even have a little fun along the way!

1. Hydrate Like It’s Your Job (But Don’t Overdo It)
You know the drill: drink water. But here’s the thing—don’t wait until the morning of your wedding to chug that gallon. Start sipping water like a boss the week before your big day. It’s going to make your skin glow, keep you feeling refreshed, and help avoid those last-minute dehydration headaches.

Pro tip: On the actual day, drink water, but balance it out! We don’t want you running to the bathroom every five minutes during your vows. (No one needs that kind of drama!)

2. Break in Your Shoes Early
I know, I know… those new shoes are everything, but honey, your wedding day is NOT the time to break them in. Get those beauties on your feet at least a couple of weeks before the big day and wear them around the house. Trust me, your feet will thank you when you’re hitting the dance floor, not limping off it.

3. Pack a Snack Kit
Wedding day meals are tricky—you’ll be busy, emotions are high, and, let’s face it, you might forget to eat. Make yourself a mini snack kit with your fave energy-boosting foods. Granola bars, almonds, and maybe a little chocolate for a sugar boost (because chocolate fixes everything). Keep it in your bridal suite or hand it to your maid of honor. A hangry bride is NOT what we’re going for.

4. Be Selfish with Your Morning
The morning of your wedding is YOURS. Yes, Aunt Linda wants a selfie, and your bridesmaids have some last-minute questions, but take at least 30 minutes for yourself. Meditate, do yoga, take deep breaths, whatever makes you feel zen. It’s your moment to soak it all in before the beautiful c h a o s begins.

5. Practice Posing
Sounds silly, but trust me on this! Take a little time to practice your favorite poses in the mirror. You’ll feel more comfortable and confident in front of the camera when the big day arrives. And if you need some inspiration, don’t be afraid to send me a message—I’m all about helping you find your most Insta-worthy angles!

6. Create a Wedding Day Playlist
Vibe check: music sets the tone for your whole day! Whether it’s calm tunes to start your morning or upbeat bops to hype you up before you walk down the aisle, create a playlist that’s totally you. This isn’t just any day—it’s YOUR day, so fill it with the music that makes you feel like a million bucks.

7. Designate a “Problem Solver”
Let’s be real—things happen. Assign someone (not you!) to handle any day-of problems. Whether the flowers arrive late, Uncle Joe can’t find his seat, or a last-minute detail needs tweaking, let someone else handle it so you can focus on what matters—marrying your person!

8. Schedule Alone Time with Your Partner
Amid all the celebrations, sneak away with your soon-to-be spouse for a few quiet moments. Whether it’s before the ceremony or during the reception, it’s a perfect way to connect and just be. A little pre-wedding cuddle or a private moment together post-ceremony will remind you what this day is truly about. (If I’m your photographer, don’t worry, I’m already building it into your timeline!)

9. Don’t Forget the Tissues (And Waterproof Mascara!)
This one’s simple, but so important. Tears WILL happen, and that’s okay! Just make sure you’ve got some tissues on hand, and invest in that waterproof mascara. Trust me, your makeup artist will thank you, and your photos will be that much more stunning when you’re not worrying about smudges. Extra points for a beautiful vintage hankie! They look beautiful in your wedding album.

10. Finally, Let It All Go!
At some point on your wedding day, you’ve gotta just release it all—any stress, last-minute worries, or planning details—and focus on the joy of the day. Take a deep breath, look around, and soak in all the love surrounding you. THIS is the moment you’ve been waiting for, and it’s going to be epic.

So, there you have it—my top uncommon tips for getting ready on your wedding day! Remember, it’s not about perfection, it’s about making memories, feeling the love, and having the best dang time ever. You’ve got this!

If you don’t have a photographer yet, what are you waiting for? Your wedding deserves to be captured in a way that’s totally you—authentic, fun, and unforgettable. Let’s make magic together! Dates are booking fast, so let’s lock yours in before it’s gone!