Hey there, lovebirds!

I know wedding planning is a lot, and finding the perfect photographer can feel like a whole journey in itself. But listen, I’m here to make it easy, fun, and absolutely you. If you want the kind of photos that bring you right back to those moments—the tears, the laughter, the “did that actually just happen?” kind of memories—then let’s chat about what questions to ask your photographer to make sure they’re capturing your story perfectly.

Here are some questions I wish more couples would ask me when we first meet. These aren’t just about picking someone to take pictures; they’re about choosing the right person to capture your love in all its beautiful, unique magic.

1. How are you going to get to know us before the big day?

I live for this question! The magic of your wedding day starts way before I ever pick up the camera. It’s in those calls where we share stories, those little moments where you tell me how you met, what makes you laugh, and all the things that make your love unlike anyone else’s. Our text chat so you can send me OMG CHELS I love this photo messages. When I know you—really know you—that’s when I can catch those little things that mean everything.

2. How do you make our photos feel personal and unique to us?

This one’s a game-changer. Your love story deserves more than just cookie-cutter shots. It deserves you, in all your wonderful weirdness and heart-bursting love. I don’t just show up like it’s another job—I truly freaking LOVE what I do. I get to know you before the wedding so I can catch all of those moments that I know mean something to you. Whether it’s the way you crack up when they say something sarcastic, or how you two hold hands like it’s the safest place in the world, I’m here to capture the stuff that makes your story yours.

3. What’s your favorite part of the wedding day to capture?

Let’s be real—the whole day is amazing, but there are certain moments that get me every time. I want you to ask me this so you know where my heart is when I’m there with my camera. For me, it’s the raw, in-between moments: your mom fixing your veil with tears in her eyes, the way your partner looks at you during the vows, the first deep breath you take after you’re finally married. Those moments are everything, and I’m here to catch every one.

Or… like this one… the way your daddy looks at you like he’s holding his whole world in his arms. The kind of look that makes time stop, that says he’s proud beyond words and just can’t believe his little girl is here, all grown up, dancing with him. That’s the magic I’m after.

4. How do you make us comfortable in front of the camera?

I get it—being in front of a camera can feel awkward, like, what do you even do with your hands, right? But trust me, I’ve got tricks for days. By the time I’m done, we’ll be cracking up, I’ll be reminding you to just be your awesome selves, and we’ll have moments where you totally forget the camera is even there. I might have you bust out a goofy little dance, whisper something ridiculous to each other, or just give you the kind of pep talk that makes you feel like you’re the main character. By the end, it won’t feel like a photo session—it’ll feel like a hangout where we’re making some seriously epic memories. And I promise, it’ll be a blast.

And listen, the first thing I tell you on your wedding day is: “This is not a photoshoot. This is your wedding day. Ignore me, pretend I’m not here. I promise I’ll step in and direct when I need to, but the best thing you can do is just live your wedding day. I’ve got the rest.” Trust me, the real magic happens when you’re fully immersed in every moment, and I’m right there capturing it all.

5. How do you go beyond just taking photos to tell our story?

Photography is more than pressing a button; it’s telling a story—your story. I want your gallery to be a time capsule of everything you felt that day. From those quiet, emotional moments to the full-blown dance party at the end of the night, it’s all about getting the realness, the joy, and the heart. I’m not just here for the pretty pictures; I’m here to make sure your story is told in a way that feels as real and beautiful as your love.

So, if you’re choosing a photographer, don’t be afraid to ask the big, real questions—questions that help you find someone who sees you, who gets your vision, and who’s just as excited to tell your love story as you are to live it. And hey, if those questions led you here, I’d love to be that person for you.

Reach out, and let’s chat about how we can make your wedding day unforgettable—not just in the moment, but forever through the images we create. Click here to connect and start planning your perfect day!